I think everyone has a story of either them, or someone close to them getting hurt, killed, or nearly killed in an accident, that is how dangerous driving really is. My story is one that deeply wounded the small town I live in. About two and a half years ago, a middle school girl was killed, one of my friends younger sisters. She was killed by an at the time high school senior who was texting and driving and completely oblivious to her and the bus she was trying to get onto. The incident sent shockwaves through the community, and for a while, you could see change. People would stop texting and driving because they would remember what happened to that little girl. Eventually though, they got back into their usual habbits. But I never forgot this incident, it happened only a brief time before I got my own lisence and galvinized my behavior to never text and drive. I saw the danger of not treating driving as a constant potential danger.
America is a car based culture who loves to drive inadequetly, but we can change that. We need to change people perspective on driving. Drivers education is a great place to start. We need to adequetly solitify the idea that driving impaired is an extreme danger, and we need to provide examples. Every new driver should have it drilled into their mind that if they are not thinking about the road while driving, then they are as dangerous as flailing a gun around with the safety off. And we need to change how we talk about it on a personal level. If someone mentions dangerous driving habits, don't encourage it. I feel like in our society a lot of people take pride in driving in horrendus conditions in the worst way possible but still making it to a location. If someone is doing this, call them out on it. You don't have to be rude, but just telling them that its not okay, its just irresponsible and dangerous. As long as its done in a way that comes across as genuine concern, then it usually helps.
We handle driving with to much levity. I have personal expierence with people driving impaired, and in some cases boasting about it. I have met people who will openly discuss driving while drunk, high, or extremely tired like its a hobby. We have watched internal car distractions like texting and friends lead to hundreds of tradgedies. And We have failed to combat this rot within our car culture. We need to instigate change by acting at high levels, like education, but also at low levels, call your friends out if they are driving like a moron. We need to respect the dangers of driving.
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An accident that made me aware that also time and impatience can be impairement
Karin Deutsch