2025 Driver Education Round 3
The stories that changed how I see driving
Jaci
Evansville, Indiana
When I think about impaired driving, I don’t just think about the statistics or what’s written in a textbook. I think about the stories I’ve heard and the people I’ve met. Being a sophomore in college, I’ve seen and heard about impaired driving way too often. It honestly makes me sick to my stomach. Last year, I went to Indiana University Bloomington, which is known as a party school. I can’t even count how many times I heard people bragging about how they “successfully made it back” to their dorm after drinking. They said it like it was an accomplishment, like something to be proud of. But it’s not. It’s pure luck that they made it home without hurting themselves or someone else. I’m glad they made it back safe, of course, but the fact that they risked their life and other people’s lives for no reason just blows my mind. That kind of attitude shows how misunderstood impaired driving still is. Too many people think, “I’m okay this time,” or “It’s just a short drive,” when that’s exactly how tragedies happen.
Now that I go to the University of Southern Indiana, I still hear the same kinds of stories. It doesn’t matter what kind of school you go to or what city you live in it happens everywhere. College students especially seem to think they’re invincible. Maybe it’s the independence or the fact that they’re surrounded by friends who encourage bad choices, but it’s so common to see people make excuses like, “I’m fine,” or “It’s only down the street.” It’s scary to realize how normal this has become. Anytime I’m out with my friends, I always tell them to get an Uber, no matter what. I tell them to call or text me, even if it’s late, because I’d rather lose sleep than lose a friend. I don’t ever want to be the person who looks back and says, “I wish I had done something.”
When I took driver’s ed, we learned about impaired driving, but a lot of the examples felt distant. They were old stories or videos that seemed outdated. Back then, I think I brushed it off because I hadn’t really seen it up close. Now that I’m older and in college, I realize it’s not something that happens to “other people.” It’s happening every single day, right now. The faces and names change, but the cause is the same. People think they’re okay to drive when they’re not. That’s why I think driver’s education needs to focus more on showing real, current examples that people can relate to. If students could hear from people their own age who’ve lost friends or gotten in accidents because of impaired driving, I think it would hit harder. Facts and laws are important, but emotions and real-life stories are what change behavior.
There are so many kinds of impairment that happen on the road today. The most obvious ones are alcohol and drugs, but honestly, distraction is just as dangerous. Texting while driving has become so normal that people don’t even think twice about it. I’ve seen people scrolling through TikTok or Snapchat while driving, like it’s no big deal. But it only takes a few seconds of not looking at the road for everything to go wrong. Fatigue is another big one, college students stay up late studying or hanging out, and then they drive home half-asleep. Being that tired is basically the same as being drunk when it comes to how slow your reaction time gets. All of these things make it harder to focus, to think clearly, and to make smart decisions. The worst part is that most people don’t notice how impaired they are until it’s too late.
Driver’s education and traffic safety programs can make a real difference if they focus on what actually connects with people. Instead of just teaching rules, they should teach why those rules exist. They should talk about how it feels to live with the guilt of hurting someone, how families are affected, and how one quick decision can change a life forever. These programs could bring in guest speakers who’ve been affected by impaired driving survivors, police officers, or even family members who lost someone. Hearing those stories makes it real in a way that no worksheet ever can. It’s not just about passing a test to get your license; it’s about learning responsibility and respect for other people’s lives.
I think the more we normalize safe choices, the better. Things like using Uber, Lyft, or having a designated driver should be seen as the smart thing to do, not something to be embarrassed about. Today, we have so many resources apps, rideshare programs, and even college organizations that help get people home safely. There’s no excuse for impaired driving anymore.
Personally, I take this topic seriously because I’ve seen the effects of it too many times. I never want to be the reason someone doesn’t make it home. I know I can’t control other people’s actions, but I can set an example. I can remind my friends to be smart, I can offer rides, and I can speak up when I see someone about to make a bad choice. Sometimes, saying something uncomfortable could save a life. I also want to keep learning from my own driver’s education experiences and help others understand that driving isn’t just about getting from one place to another, it’s about doing it safely and responsibly every single time.
In the end, impaired driving is one of those things that we all have the power to stop, but it takes effort and awareness. Every driver needs to take it seriously and understand that it’s not just their own life at risk. The road is a shared space, and we all have a duty to keep each other safe. I hope that one day, stories about drunk or distracted driving won’t be normal anymore, they’ll be a thing of the past. Until then, I’ll keep doing my part to speak up, make good choices, and remind others that no drink, text, or shortcut is ever worth a life.
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